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Costco 2008

 

March 1, 2008 – Bountiful, Utah

March 17, 2008 – Bountiful, Utah

April 4, 2008 – Murray, Utah

April 12, 2008 – Lehi, Utah

April 21, 2008 – Orem, Utah

May, 29, 2008 – Orem, Utah

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March 1, 2008 – Bountiful, Utah

 

What a day at the Bountiful Costco. I didn’t get a chance to have photos taken, but just imagine a Costco on Saturday and you’ll get the idea. The weather was nice during the week, then yet another storm rolled through during the day and evening. All I had to do to know what was going on outside was to see how snow covered or rain soaked everyone was. Spring and summer will come eventually, and I’ll still be signing.

 

I have to apologize to those who occasionally got caught in the traffic jam around the table. But I also sincerely appreciate those who occasionally caused them. It was great talking with you.

 

Not only do our area Costco’s now carry three books by authors with the last name of Parker, but I met another young man whose first name is Parker, and an older gentleman who told me a short story about his great grandfather, a Parker, who came west with the pioneers. I’m glad to be a part of this “Parker” trend.

 

Thank you to those who I also met Monday March 4th at my “Drop In” signings at the Orem and Lehi stores. These are unofficial signings that I do during the week. If you see my big sign at the entrance to the store, you’ll know I’m there.

 

One gentleman at the Orem store talked to me briefly about his time in the service. He was a handsome and friendly man of 86. I really enjoyed talking with him even it if was only for a few minutes.

 

My father, who past away a few years ago, was an Engineer in WWII building and maintaining runways and airports on strategic Pacific islands. He also served briefly in Europe. I have an incredible respect and admiration for all those who fought, and who now fight so we may enjoy our freedoms.

 

I ended up selling out the stock of books at both stores. There were a few people at the Lehi store who were waiting for a signed copy but didn’t get one. Sorry. The store will likely restock soon and I’ll be back at both stores in the next several weeks for officially scheduled signings.

--Ranse

 

 

March 17, 2008 – Bountiful, Utah

 

The Saturday signings listed on the Events and Signing Schedule are official, planned events. During the past few weeks I’ve been stopping in at various Costco stores to sign for a half-day or so during the week. These signings depend on a store’s current level of inventory and presently aren’t listed on the schedule. Today I hung out at the Bountiful Costco and met some great people.

 

One man was a book illustrator and we had a great talk about some of his books and publishing. A project I’ve been toying with for a few years was of mutual interest so we exchanged e-mails.

 

Another man that first passed by, then came back was a gentleman I recalled seeing in Dan’s Foods several years ago during the Christmas Season. He had invented a game that he was personally marketing through many of the Associated Foods stores and I remembered having talked to him briefly so many years ago.

 

There was a schoolteacher who related that she had reserved the book at the local library several weeks ago and was still waiting. Since I was there signing, she decided not to wait any longer.

 

As some of you may know, I worked for Bonneville International and KSL Radio for several years during the late ‘80’s. Occasionally I still see people I used to work with like Scott Seeger, Doug Wright, and Barb Smith who’s been at ABC-4 now for a while. She started in the KSL Radio Newsroom when I was there.

 

One of my fondest memories was playing on the KSL softball team with many of the news and on-air personalities like Craig Bollerjack, Dick Nourse and Keith McCord along with many of the behind-the-scenes people that make broadcasting work.

 

I had played hardball ball most of my youth and was primarily a pitcher and outfielder. At one of these softball games I was playing center field when a ball was nailed out to me just over second base. The batter got cocky and rounded for second. I fielded the ball and threw it to second so hard that it actually rose from the backspin. Keith McCord was playing second base, caught the ball with a very loud ‘POP’ and tagged the runner out before slowly grabbing his glove and garnering that “oh crap that hurt” expression.

 

One thing about being on TV is that the audience knows you, but you usually know few of them. So even local TV talent often gets the stares or accosted in public because most are genuinely shocked to see them out of their boxes and living in 3-D.

 

Even in my brief time signing, I’ve already met and talked with, or have had the opportunity to become reacquainted with a few of our local personalities. But I have to say that talking to Keith again on a slow Monday afternoon at Costco was the highlight of the day. If any of you have met Keith, then you already know that he is just one heck of nice guy. Even though it’s been twenty years since I was at the station, he remembered the baseball games and was as cordial as ever as we spoke for a few minutes. It was great to see him again.

 

An odd moment came (I may have even blushed) when a young mom happily expressed to me that her mom had recently purchased the book and stayed up all night to finish it because she didn’t want to stop reading. The young mom then related that she couldn’t wait to read it herself. As the author I really appreciate hearing these comments, but at the same time it’s almost embarrassing. I sincerely appreciate the positive comments while at the same feel somewhat uncomfortable of such recognition – especially knowing that the whole story was a gift. I just wrote it.

 

Probably the strangest and most interesting conversation of the day was with a lady who didn’t even purchase a book, but who was unassumingly insightful and obviously intelligent. She had made the usual inquiries of what the story was about and how I came to write it. After politely listening to my short story of a stolen career interest, profound dreams, overwhelming impressions and a secret 5-year writing project, she smile and asked, “Do you know why you’re doing this yet?” I was surprised at her intuitive question and simply responded, “No, not yet.”

 

It was clear that she was familiar with the same inner drive that causes some of us to follow paths we may not completely understand, but are compelled to follow – even toward horizons that may hide our final destinations. I related to her that I have a few suspicions of what I think at least a portion of my destiny might be. But for now, I just go forward in faith.

 

I did relate to her though that part of what keeps me going is the recognition and occasional sense of an incredibly powerful, yet subtle force that is guiding and gently nudging me along. In that, I know that a purpose for this journey exists and for now that is reason enough to continue. And where some might see my personal experiences and subsequent professional choices as reasons to seek professional counseling, I saw them as hints so obvious that I would have been a fool not to pursue them in all earnest.

 

Every new day is a day of new possibilities. And regardless of where this course may lead, I believe I will be one of the fortunate ones who will someday look back and not have to say, “I wish I would have listened…”

--Ranse

 

 

April 4, 2008 – Murray, Utah

 

Murray rocks. I know, not a very intellectually intuitive remark, and the signing wasn’t even on the official schedule because it was a “drop in” during the week. But I was astounded by the traffic at the Murray, Utah Costco on a Friday. A few stores might have lulls when I can work on something during the breaks in traffic. I didn’t get much personal work done that day.

 

The first person to purchase a book happened to be an old friend who worked with my wife many, many years ago. She recognized my unique name and asked if I my wife was… We exchanged contact information and had a nice visit.

 

Later one of my nephews and his wife happened by and we talked for a while. Her mother’s review of the book is on the reviews page of this site.

 

One woman approached the table with curiosity and started the conversation by asking how I came up with the name for the book. I explained the best I could without giving away too many plot-spoiling details. She then related to me a dream she had had of being in an endlessly large round room filled with doors. She said in the dream she could go to each door and would find something different behind each one – as if her options for discovery were endless. Sounds a little familiar. It was another one of those serendipitous meetings. I love ‘em.

 

It’s always fun to talk with the youth. I had a nice one-on-one conversation with one aspiring writer who appeared about 10 or 11 years old. The young man said he had already written a few short stories and was working on more. I offered the best advice I knew and wished him well. No doubt at least a few young people are inspired by seeing authors who have been able to achieve a certain level of success. The truth is, getting a book into the general markets, let alone written and published, is nothing short of a miracle. It can sometimes be a very difficult and discouraging journey that takes a great deal more than average dedication and commitment to accomplish. Great achievements generally require great journeys, and many times great risk. When I talk to these young people and hear their ideas, goals, hopes and dreams, they also inspire me to continue my course and be the best example to them that I can be.

 

The most interesting question of the day came in the form of a comment after a person had read a few of the various testimonials and part of the introduction. She related to me that she was concerned the story might be too “high-brow” for her – sighting written remarks that the story was “sophisticated” and “thought provoking.” I explained that the story was written in such a manner that readers can take as much or as little from the story as they wish. It is a complex story, but isn’t hard to read and is even gaining popularity with younger teenage readers. A local 6th grade elementary teacher recently recommended the book to her students. With that information, a sense of confidence was restored.

 

I met another author with a cookbook scheduled for release in a few months and also got to talk with a lady and her husband visiting from England. She was looking for a book to read while traveling. I love listening to those with English, Australian, Irish, or Scottish accents. It was much more fun to hear about their travels, what they had done and where they were going rather than reciting my broken record synopsis of the book.

 

Costco is now stocking Circle of Doors in volume so I’ll start listing weekday signings on my schedule. Somewhere in there I’ll also start actually writing the next book along with everything else. Bring it on.

--Ranse

 

 

April 12, 2008 – Lehi, Utah

 

I admit it, I’m a wuss sometimes. Anxiety seems to become my friend while getting ready for signings and my stomach usually confirms it. I told my wife I was nervous this morning. She noted that I looked more catatonic than nervous. Catatonic… That works.

 

The condition is usually temporary because after getting to a signing, settling in and stuttering through my first few explanations and answering questions, the anxiety subsides. That has a great deal to do with the people who inquire about the work. Most of them are sincerely nice people and next to receiving a positive review from someone who as already read the book, nothing boosts confidence more than having a perspective customer say, “That sounds really interesting. Will you sign one for me?”

 

But preparing for a Saturday to hang out at the Lehi Costco was worse than usual. I inexplicably woke up at 2 A.M. something, then 4 A.M. and finally woke up later out of sync. You know what I mean – it was like my body was walking around lethargically doing its thing while my mind, watching from other plane of reality, made a half-hearted attempted to keep up. I was just off.

 

It seemed that practically every driver on the road that morning had either indulged in a few too many energy drinks, or could have used one. I needed a piece of black craft paper for a display so I stopped at a particular craft store on the way through Salt Lake City to pick one up. They had a full aisle of every color you could possibly imagine, except black.

 

When I arrived at the Costco, Cindy already had the table out with a tablecloth, a nice office chair and some books on display. Keep in mind that Costco is not a bookstore and I usually expect to setup my own table and chair. So when it’s already done for you, it’s very nice. Thank you Cindy.

 

And the Costco members were wonderful as usual. I had a great visit with a former employee of one of the area special-market publishers. Her name was Sara. I suspect she’ll find particular interest in the story partly because of her name.

 

I end up talking about my author friend Mike Ramsdell (A Train to Potevka) at least a few times at almost every Costco signing. I suspect we’ll be seeing more of Mike in the years to come.

 

One of my favorite meetings was with a very astute 9-year-old young man and his father. After the father was satisfied that Circle of Doors had acceptable content, I signed a copy for the young man. I’m hoping to hear from them again.

 

A man stopped at the table to ask if his wife had been by yet. I didn’t know who his wife was and he didn’t really offer much of an explanation. His suspicious smile concerned me a little though. Later a woman came by to explain that she had purchased the book when I was there several weeks prior and that she absolutely loved it. Apparently it was now floating through her family and she wasn’t sure it was coming back. She then talked to some people looking at my banner who I think she knew and told them they had to try the book because it was just incredible. Then a few other people came by that I’m not sure she knew and she proceeded to tell them how wonderful the book was and that they just had to read it. They all ended up purchasing a book. The woman’s husband jokingly commented that his enthusiastic wife was now going to want a commission.

 

Another woman told me that she had been drawn to the book earlier in the week when she saw it in the store. She said she wasn’t sure why until I told her my personal story of how the story came to me and what I had gone through to get it published. She understood the writing process and was associated with other artists and writers, some successful, who have had similar experiences. Somehow the book alone had conveyed that connection to her before she even knew its intrepid history. She purchased a copy for her group.

 

Throughout my life I’ve always made my own successes through drive, ambition, opportunity, risk, mistakes, correction and perseverance. But authorship is a different animal. Regardless what the author or publisher might do to push the business and marketing side of publishing, the reading public becomes the final judge to an author’s fate - the written word the author’s final testimony. I cannot thank enough those who have given me the opportunity to distribute my work, to allow me to sign in their stores, and to those readers who voice their appreciation and praise for my efforts.

 

In this business of authorship and publishing there are almost endless opportunities to fail and seemingly very few to succeed. It is partly by the examples of those willing to challenge the status quo that others become inspired. It is also by the support of those who understand and can relate to those challenges that the few of us who have chosen to be examples can continue our work. Thank you.

--Ranse

 

 

April 21, 2008 – Lehi, Utah

 

The most books sold at any signing to date. Great people, great store.

 

The day was summed up by a little girl probably eight or nine years old. She was with her family earlier as they shopped and visited with friends. Apparently she had been watching me. Later during a lull when I got up to walk around a little, she came up to me by herself, smiling, and said, “You sure sell a lot of books.”

 

What a cute girl. We talked for a moment before a sister a few years older came over to retrieve her.

 

Thanks everyone.

--Ranse

 

May 29, 2008 – Orem, Utah

 

An increasingly busy schedule has kept me from adding as many notes to the signings as I would like. But before heading to Costco in Salt Lake City this morning, I want to mention a few things about signing at Costco in Orem yesterday.

 

It seems that it’s always the days I may feel a little off my game that some of the nicest people stop and talk with me. As an author, it’s a privilege to have your book in a store anywhere, let alone Costco. Many never get this type of opportunity so mine isn’t one I treat lightly.

 

As the book continuous to sell, more people are telling me how much they’ve enjoyed it. Along with generally positive comments, I’ve been told that the book has ventured to Argentina, Mexico, and various other places. At the Orem store, a gentleman and his slightly displaced son stopped by. The man wanted to let me know that he took the book with him to Russia and thoroughly enjoyed it. He flew there to pick up his son who had concluded his LDS mission. It was just a great experience to talk with them and to know that the book was valued enough to take on such a trip. I really, honestly do appreciate all of the people who are giving the work, and me, a chance.

 

When I decided it was time to bail and finally head north to home, I stopped at Wendy’s for a salad. The dining area was pretty vacant and a young father and daughter were the only other people near were I was sitting. The little girl must have been around 3 years old and was almost too big for the high chair she was in. She was a cutie with long curly blonde hair, and her father looked like he had been at work not long before.

 

It was nice to watch them and reminded me of when I would occasionally take my sons or only daughter out for a daddy/son or daughter dinner – not nearly as often as I should have at that age. This father was very thoughtful, calm and attentive. I sat down to my meal toward the end of theirs so the father was helping his daughter with her frosty. When they were done, he gently took her out of the chair, gave her her drink to carry and they left.

 

Whoever he was, I give him credit for being at least one example of what I think more fathers should do with their children, and how they should act with their families.


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